1 habit of jumping to conclusions.
Very often we think that we already know in advance what will happen and how, and begin to act in accordance with their misconceptions about the future. In fact, life loves to throw up such surprises, which is even hard to imagine, so do not rely on your jump to conclusions.
Also mistakenly think that we know the causes of people's actions and their subsequent actions. This is absolutely wrong, and very often leads to conflicts and misunderstandings in relationships.
Habit 2 dramatize events.
Should not exaggerate minor setbacks upset over little things. When this behavior occurs we have an alarm that does not give to be successful in life.
3 Habit create stereotypes and labels.
When we try to once and for all to define the essence of things, we can very much mistaken. In fact, everything in the world is much more interesting than it might seem at first glance, so do not try to drive all within certain limits.
4 Habit share all "black and white".
In fact, in a color palette of life, there are thousands of options, and the desire to get "all or nothing" leads to the fact that we simply do not notice. There is no perfect job, friends, relations. Great art - be glad that you have.
Habit 5 generalize.
Often we try to find the trend in a series of our successes and failures. In fact, several repeat the situation still nothing show. Treat each event as a self-worth.
6 habit of taking everything to heart.
Do not worry because of the bad news on TV, stories about the diseases your neighbor or the failure that befell your colleague. Sympathy, help, but do not worry because other people's problems.
7 Habit trust surging emotions.
Your feelings show your subjective perception of the world, which is not always true.
8 wont be apathetic.
To be successful, you have to be an optimist. Wait, look for and believe in the good - and you'll get it! People with a negative attitude often do not even notice the opportunities that could bring them good luck.
9 The habit of doing everything by the rules.
Often we ourselves set itself certain limits, which do not bring nothing but difficulties and nervousness. Should not create unnecessary obstacles where there are none.
10 The habit of digging up the past.
Much better to leave the past alone, forgive all the offenses themselves and others, and with a pure heart to live. It is not necessary to keep the heart of past failures and disappointments. Live on, believing in luck and hoping for the best.